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– SABRINA ALEXIS I’m in love with a person we were together for almost 3yrs he was very good in the first 5months after that he completely lost interest in me from 2 n half years I’m trying to keep this relationship alive he doesn’t give time to me he just not into me he doesn’t meet me he doesn’t care for me but still says he loves me n he says he just fed up of me complaining I just don’t know wat to do I had a guy I like tell me the first time we were alone together he was not ready to date and I should get a pet for companionship.
I was stunned at his comments at that point I didn’t even like him for dating. He is okay for the first few days maybe to get sex but then ignores me.
When a guy has you and gets to keep you without really putting in much effort, your stock inevitably goes down in his mind.
At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!
The frequency of calls and texts declined…he was always “too busy” to hang out…he stopped initiating contact (but would always respond when I reached out to him, acting nice and normal like always)…
A man can sense when you’re making him chase you, and if you keep it up you’ll succeed in one thing: chasing him away.
When you are so desperate for his approval and so accommodating to his schedule, then he doesn’t feel a need to step up or lock you down because…why should he?
What it really comes down to is being a woman who values herself and is confident in who she is.
Intentionally manipulating a guy or playing games will always backfire because no guy wants to feel like he’s being yanked along on a destination-less journey.
Plus, he’ll be able to see right through what you’re doing and it will come across as desperate, which is the ultimate turnoff.
So go out there and do your thing, be happy without him (whether him is in the picture or not), and let him be the icing on your perfect cake, rather than the flour, the eggs, the sugar and whatever other ingredients go into making a cake!